In a heartwarming and enlightening All About Network Show, Sean, the COO of the Center of Family Love (CFL), shared the powerful mission behind this unique organization based in Okarche, Oklahoma. CFL provides lifelong residential care and vocational opportunities for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD). With 130 residents living on campus, ranging from those needing full-time nursing in Intermediate Care Facilities (ICF) to more independent group homes, CFL fosters a sense of purpose, family, and dignity.
At the heart of CFL’s philosophy is the idea of “removing the DISS from disability.” This shift in focus highlights what individuals can do, rather than what they can’t. Residents work in businesses like a filter shop, a floral shop, a t-shirt printing shop, and a horticulture operation that supplies top restaurants with microgreens. One resident, Shea, is so skilled in floral design that she now trains incoming florists. Another, Travis, creates comic-book quality illustrations and has even developed his own character, “Travman.”
Beyond employment, CFL offers programming in culinary arts, STEM, dance, fitness, and life skills for those not yet ready for outside work. These activities not only build confidence but also cultivate daily independence and joy.
A major development on the horizon is CFL’s capital campaign for a new Career Training and Development Center in Piedmont. This facility will serve youth starting at age 16 through adulthood, bridging the often-overlooked transition from high school to the workforce for people with IDD and autism. With 14 planned program areas and an integrated career placement model, including business partnerships and job coaching, CFL aims to empower hundreds more every year.
The recent premiere of CFL’s documentary, now an award-winning film, captured the world through the eyes of its residents. Personalities like Daisy and her thought-provoking statements showed the emotional depth and wisdom of the community. As Sean said, visiting the CFL is life-changing; the love and pride among the residents is palpable. For many, CFL isn’t just a place to live or work; it’s home.
By unlocking potential and shifting perceptions, CFL is truly “crushing disability” and building a more inclusive future, one empowered life at a time.